The author shares how a quote from Brené Brown about "candle blower outers" - people who don't want you to thrive - inspired them to re-evaluate their relationships. They made a list of the people in their life who didn't want to see them succeed, which surprisingly included their own family members. The author realized that there are four main reasons why people may not want others to shine: envy, fear, insecurity, and a desire for control. This realization led the author to quit 80% of their relationships, prioritizing their well-being and personal growth over toxic connections. The article emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive, encouraging people who want to see you succeed.
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